Our Irish Ancestor
and his first American born sons

If anyone has real proof, real evidence that the name of our ancestor to come from Ireland and settle in America was James or Thomas, I am unaware.  I am just as unaware of any documents or bible records that prove that Thomas, George, William, Charles, Benjamin, and Francis were brothers born to this family.  I believe these are family myths that many have accepted as proof with no verifiable documentation from an independent source to confirm James or Thomas and their below families lines are valid. I have read stories that some old bibles support the James O'Kelley and Anna Dean or Thomas O'Kelley and Elizabeth Dean traditions that I have listed below but I know of no one alive who has seen the bibles that James or Thomas are recorded within.  My goal is to separate fact from fiction and work from that which can be proven and to my knowledge the only documents that exists to aid us is a 1752 Lunenburg  Co Virginia Tithe Census and a 1782 Mecklenburg Co Virginia State Head of Household government census document that makes it likely that William Kelley not Thomas O'Kelley or James O'Kelley was the true name of our ancestor living in Mecklenburg Virginia at the time Charles and Francis lived there and we see the Kelley and sometimes Kelly name used on the marriage records and military service records of Thomas, Charles, Benjamin, and Francis, they were not going by "O'Kelley" at that time and to be clear, Thomas, Charles, Benjamin, and Francis signed their names with an X so how their surname was spelled was determined by the persons who recorded it. 

Pedigrees of
James O'Kelley and Anna Dean Thomas O'Kelley and Elizabeth Dean William Kelley and Elizabeth Dean
1. James O'Kelley1 (Kelly, Kelley, or O'Kelly) was born in 1710 in Ireland.1 

James O'Kelley and Anna Dean were married in 1733.1

 Anna Dean1 was born about 1710.

James O'Kelley and Anna Dean had the following children:

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i.

James O'Kelley 1 b 1735

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ii.

Elizabeth O'Kelley1 was born in 1738.

4

iii.

Polly Ann O'Kelley1 was born in 1742.

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iv.

Charles O'Kelley. 1   My Ancestor

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v.

Thomas O'Kelley. 1
+7 vi. Francis O'Kelley.  1

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vii.

Benjamin O'Kelley. 1

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viii.

George O'Kelley. 1
1. Thomas O'Kelley 2,3 (Kelly, Kelley, or O'Kelly) was born in Ireland.22 

Thomas O'Kelley and Elizabeth Dean were married about 1748 in Virginia.

Elizabeth Dean 2,3

Thomas O'Kelley and Elizabeth Dean had the following children:

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i.

Thomas O'Kelley.1,2,3,4  (appears as Kelley in marriage record and OKelly in will)
3 ii. George O'Kelley 1,2,3,4

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iii.

William D O'Kelley 2,3,4 

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iv.

Charles O'Kelley.1,2,3,4 (appears as Kelly in Rev War Documents)  My Ancestor

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v.

Benjamin O'Kelley.1,2,3,4 (appears as Kelly in Rev War Documents) Macon makes the claim that Benjamin served in the 8th Va with his brother Charles.

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vi.

Francis O'Kelley.1,2,3,4 (appears as Kelley in marriage record and O'Kelly in the 1838 O'Kelly bible pages, see bottom of page)

1. William Kelley was likely born about 1730 in Ireland. 

William Kelley and Elizabeth Deane were likely married about 1751 in Henrico or Lunenburg Co Virginia or Ireland.

Elizabeth Deane 2,3 may have been born about 1730 in Henrico co Va to Richard Deane and Sarah Cox.  Her brother Charles Dean appears in land transaction in Halifax County Va.

William O'Kelley and Elizabeth Dean had the following children:

+2   Thomas O'Kelley. 4
+3   ? name of Elizabeth's father
+4 i. William D O'Kelley 4

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ii.

Charles Dean** O'Kelley  2,3,4  (appears as Kelly and Kelley in Rev War Rosters)  My Ancestor

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iii.

Benjamin O'Kelley 2,3,4
+7 iv. Francis O'Kelley.1,2,3,4 (appears as Kelley in marriage record and O'Kelly in the 1838 O'Kelly bible pages, see bottom of page)
 
Source: Judith Ries, descendant of Dr Thomas K O'Kelley Source: J Fred O'Kelly, Alethea Macon, and Harold O'Kelley
Source: Rick O'Kelley,

The case of the three O'Kelleys: James, Thomas, and William.

I must present a great deal of detail because I have a huge difficulty created by the books of J Fred O'Kelly, Alethea Jane Macon, and Harold O'Kelley.  When J Fred O'Kelly and Alethea Jane Macon published their works in 1966 and 1969 they had the luxury of presenting their findings unchallenged and mostly in agreement but that is not true for me.  The works of these authors and a later book published in 1985 by Harold O'Kelley are widely accepted and replicated by descendants as proven fact   My detail is necessary as to provide my readers with the evidence allowing my readers to judge for themselves, something not that much different than what I did in proving my criminal cases before a jury of 12 reasonable men and women. 

I have a long history with the book titled "Some Descendants and Ancestral Kin of James Stamps O'Kelley and Lucy Woodruff England" printed by J Fred O'Kelly in 1966, my first reading of it was as a young teen living in the home of my parents almost a half a century ago and I have read and reread this book many times during my adulthood.   By the time Alethea Jane Macon printed her book in 1969 my interest were anything other than the family that made my birth possible so my first reading of her book came only in the Spring of 2010 mostly because it was not widely distributed something that I have changed, thanks to the Internet and the consent of Ms Macon's family her written words will out live the paper they were printed upon more than forty years ago a fitting tribute to the accomplished life of Alethea Jane Macon.  My life has come full circle as I recall my wonderings as a fourteen year old child reading J Fred O'Kelly's book.  I hope to uncover much of our ancestors past and present that information on my pages.

My reader should understand that our ancestors lived a much different life than we live today, they came from different influences certainly a different world.  Well established religious beliefs of today were radical and not widely accepted in their time.  For more than twelve hundred years the Christian world had been Roman Catholic and those with different views were often put to death by the Church using some of the most cruel methods but living on the edge of the known world the Irish developed a unique blend of Pagan (nature or rural wisdom) and Christian worship where the wisdom about the natural world learned over many thousand years was interwoven with the much newer teachings of the Roman Catholic Church.  Many today are taught that Pag anbeliefs were based in satanic worship which could not be further from the truth.  To be Pagan was to acquire wisdom and knowledge of nature, the Sun, the Earth, the Moon, and the seasons; to know when to plant and when to harvest, how to keep and preserve foods to survive deadly winters.  It is accepted that our ancestor to come from Ireland was a protestant but few understand just how radical and rare it was for a native Irishman to come from Ireland about or before 1750 and be anything other than poor and Catholic.  In the early days only protestants who swore an oath of supremacy to the English monarchs and the state church were permitted to come to Virginia, they had to pass an examination conducted by a protestant minister providing knowledge that only a protestant would know even before they were permitted on a ship bound for Virginia Colony.  Understandable, in is book Harold O'Kelley speculates that because our ancestor arrived as protestant he may have been Scots Irish but my DNA results proves our ancestor was native Irish and not Scotch-Irish, he descended from the Hy-Many native Irish O'Kellys and some of these lines ruled as Kings for almost 1500 years before our ancestor left Ireland. 

Because our ancestor arrived protestant and my research has ruled out the documented prominent families, I suspect that he came from a minor landed gentry native Irish family that received its income from farming and not a family that depended upon the sea as we find no sea faring influence in our early family.  This makes it more likely our ancestor came from Co Roscommon or interior Co Galway in Ireland.  He does not appear on any church membership records in Lunenburg or Mecklenburg Co Virginia nor does any of his sons so it seems likely he was not greatly influenced by faith nor did he come from a family that was engaged in such.  Rev James O'Kelly the founder of the Christian Church in early America was in his forties before he became a minister and before that time book author W E MacClenny makes claim that he was a champion fighter and a fiddler; drinking, fighting and fiddling were very common activities of the Irish.  Our ancestor may have been a professional soldier early in life, a great many Irish were and that could be how he came to be in America and he could have received land for his military service and a family Pedigree first created in 1932 by John Daniel McCurry presents an early view of the family pedigree for Rev James O'Kelly and it displays three brothers of Rev James as William D O'Kelly, Thomas D O'Kelly, and John O'Kelly, the first two brothers are given as serving in our American Revolution.  The McCurry family chart makes it more likely that my ancestor, William Kelley, and Rev James may have been brothers but based upon the name of the first born sons, it seems more likely that  Rev James O'Kelly's father was named William and William Kelley's father was named Thomas and he was the grandfather of Thomas, George, William D, Charles, Benjamin, and Francis so it seems more likely that my ancestor and Rev James were first cousins and their fathers were brothers and what I suggest fits with Harold O'Kelley's finding, that the William and son that he found living in Caroline Co Virginia were the father and brother of Rev James O'Kelly..

Both J Fred O'Kelly and Alethea Jane Macon connect the Georgia O'Kelleys back to Mecklenburg Va and they do it with bible records, tax records and land deeds.   Harold O'Kelley uses a revolutionary war pension application on file at our National Archives for a Benjamin Kelly to prove our family was in King and Queen Co Va but I find it difficult to accept that the Benjamin of the pension application which gives his year of birth as 1761 was our Benjamin that Macon tells us was was born about 1757 or 1758 mostly because the 1838 bible record gives the birth of Francis as August 31 1761 making it impossible for Benjamin and Francis to be of the same family without being twins.  The known evidence of Mecklenburg Co military records, marriage records, tax records, 1752 Lunenburg  Co Virginia Tithe Census and 1782 Mecklenburg Co Virginia State Head of Household government census document documents clearly that at the time Harold suggests our family was in Caroline Co Va, they are in Lunenburg Co which in 1765 the southern portion became Mecklenburg Va right where J Fred and Macon tells us they are.  So who did Harold find living in Caroline Co Va?  He tells his readers that there were more than 600 Kellys in our revolutionary war so clearly he found some of those 600 who could be cousins of different distances but I do not believe there is any evidence they were our direct ancestors.  Based upon the evidence of assorted records Charles and Francis can be traced to Mecklenburg Co Virginia about the time of our Revolution and no further.  Both Thomas and the Benjamin born in 1761 can be traced back by census and marriage records to Granville Co and Warren Co NC.   Mecklenburg is the end of the line for my line of Charles and it is where we find William Kelley so anything else that I have seen is based upon merely a guess.  I know of no evidence that supports Harold's conclusions that our family originates from King and Queen or Caroline Co nor that Benjamin of the pension application is of our family, or Thomas who is living in Granville NC was a brother to our Mecklenburg Va family.  There is DNA evidence that indicates that Thomas was related but nay have been a cousin to Charles and Francis several generations removed.  That could change if records are found to prove otherwise.

Below I describe the two most common and competing claims as to the names of our first ancestors they being James O'Kelley and Anna Dean and Thomas O'Kelley and Elizabeth Dean.  I have appended a third based solely upon real evidence, William Kelley and Elizabeth Dean.  I leave it to my readers to decide.


James O'Kelley and Anna Dean pedigree came to me in the spring of 2010 via a descendent of Benjamin Kelly in the telling of a story from her father about five pages of paper passed to her that are reported to have been written in the hand of her great grandfather, Dr Thomas K O'Kelley b 1833.  He reportedly complied these five pages from an unidentified ancestor's bible more than one hundred years ago to submit with his 1904 Civil War pension application.  Believing that if this story were based in fact there would be an official record I acquired a copy of Dr O'Kelley's pension file from our National Archives and these five pages are not contained therein nor are they mentioned within almost four dozen pages in that file, a file that was created very late in Dr Thomas K O'Kelley's life and in that file there is only a single notarized one page document where the notary describes Dr O'Kelley's presentation of his family Bible leaving me to question what his motivation could have been to create said pages and why they survive while the more valuable pre Civil War bible that is described in the notarized document has disappeared in time?  As an experienced homicide investigator I find this curious especially so when one considers how closely held those five pages are, I know of only one person who claims to have seen them, I don't think the five pages are being falsely represented, only their origins may have been misunderstood not uncommon when information is passed from one generation to the next.  My independent research of the data shared in emails and a public forum has caused me to no longer believe the tree of James and Anna could be valid for my family line and that is an important distinction because the data could be valid for Benjamin Kelly but not for Charles Kelley something I will expand upon below.

Alethea Janes Macon and J Fred O'Kelly both make mention in their books that some believed James was our ancestor and Macon goes on to tell us that some believed incorrectly that he was Rev James O'Kelley founder of the Christian church in North Carolina and myPainted by Fredrick Henry O'Kelley investigation of James and Anna has brought me to the Fredrick Henry O'Kelley family of Conyers GA.  I can connect this family to Macon by the Coat of Arms image that appears in the beginning of Macon's book, that image was the same image that Fredrick Henry O'Kelley painted and a photo of his painting appears on his page on this website.  The origin of that image is unknown.  Fredrick was the brother to Mrs. Carl C Walker or Kate O'Kelley one of the people Macon thanks in her book.  I believe this family may have been Macon and J Fred's source for their statements in their books that some believed the name of our ancestor was James because Mary Evelyn O'Kelley, a daughter of Fredrick Henry O'Kelley and a contemporary of J Fred O'Kelly wrote a college paper for her Masters Degree in the 60s where she presents:

“There was a man, James O’Kelley, with six sons.  (landed in Virginia 1815)  Three of the sons were married and the other three did not get married.  All three of the married sons moved to the state of Georgia, and all the O’Kelleys that are now in the state of Georgia, and all the O’Kelleys we have been able to trace in ancestry that knew anything about it were traceable back – all the O’Kelleys in the United states that we could find – were traced back to one of those three sons in the state of Georgia.” 

I present the above not as proof that James was the name of our ancestor, only to document that such belief originated from the line of Dr Francis C O'Kelley  Dr Thomas K O'Kelley was a contemporary of Dr Francis C O'Kelley the grandfather of Fredrick Henry O'Kelley and Kate O'Kelley and the great grandfather of Mary Evelyn O'Kelley and it is likely in time the two doctors came to know of one and another and exchanged communications about the origins of their families and I believe it is reasonable to assume that Dr Thomas K O'Kelley may have gained some of the inspiration for the creation of his five pages from a bible in Dr Francis C O'Kelley's family, a bible that indicates that Francis and Delilah named their first born son James and there may have also been some family lore passed or speculation created claiming that James may have actually been named after Rev James O'Kelley who was very popular in Mecklenburg at the time James was born, Rev James O'Kelley may have been the minister who married Francis and Delilah in Mecklenburg VA.  If the five pages are from the time when Dr Thomas K O'Kelley lived, they may be written in his hand or they may be pages written in the hand of someone within Dr Francis C O'Kelley's family and were mailed to Dr Thomas K O'Kelley and he has been mistakenly credited as the creator of those five pages.  Only a lab specializing in paper and ink dating and in handwriting analysis would know but at the time of this post, the descendant in possession of the five pages has no desire to know or share the pages.  It may also be that these two doctors more than one hundred years ago in their exchange of information about their families joined Thomas, George, William D, Charles, Benjamin, and Francis into a single family as my investigation has found five of the six brothers appear within Dr Thomas K O'Kelley's five pages and all six brothers appear only in J Fred O'Kelly book and he gives his source as Alethea Jane Macon and they appear in in her book and she tells her readers her source, "From the Francis O'Kelley branch of the family have come the names of six sons who were born to Thomas O'Kelley and his wife Elizabeth Dean"  so it  seems clear that Alethea Jane Macon is just passing on to her readers what the line of Dr Francis C O'Kelley provided her, meaning this conclusion was not based upon any real evidence or documents.   These parents nor their sons appear together on any bible page or other verifiable record and in my opinion this family unit was manufactured and joined together by previous researchers.


Thomas O'Kelley and Elizabeth Dean are in my opinion based solely on family myth that some have created using J Fred O'Kelly and Alethea Jane Macon publications and they are perhaps the most well known and accepted tradition but because they are readily accepted by most descendants that doesn't make them correct.   I am unaware of any birth, marriage, death records, or early bible or church records or census records to support the Thomas and Elizabeth tradition.  You may find the Yates US International Marriage Record for Thomas and Elizabeth dated 1748 but it can not be backed up by any marriage authority or any bible records or church records from that time period.  Alethea Jane Macon in her 1969 book says "The best available evidence, however, leads to the belief that his name was Thomas",  but she fails to tell us what that best available evidence might be.  I find that curious to make such an important claim but not present the supporting evidence so others can judge the credibility of the evidence.  If Thomas was the name of our ancestor why did none of his sons follow Irish tradition and name their first born son Thomas?  Why was the first born grandson named William and why doesn't Thomas and family appear in the 1752 Lunenburg Co Tithe Census or the 1782 Mecklenburg Census?  Naming customs were very big with the native Irish, just living in America would not change these customs so quickly and we see the naming customs continues in every generation since.  What prevented Macon from considering James and Anna as another possibility?  She makes no mention of Dr Thomas K O'Kelley's pages yet we know from the list of persons she thanks in her book, one was a descendent of Dr Thomas K O'Kelley but my investigation indicates that even among most of the descendants of Dr Thomas K O'Kelley the Thomas and Elizabeth tradition and not the James and Anna tradition is embraced so it is likely Macon never knew about Dr Thomas K O'Kelley pages as they appear to have only come into pubic knowledge in the past decade or so.  Based upon my reading of Macon's book I think the names of the six sons came from Kate O'Kelley a descendant of Dr Francis C O'Kelley but I think the names of Thomas and Elizabeth came from Alethea Jane Macon and it is likely the only evidence for the 87 year old Macon was what she remembered from a visit with her Aunt Betty more than a half a century before the printing of her book.  I would be lucky to live to 87 let alone remember all that Alethea Jane Macon remembers in her book. No one should  take this as a condemnation of Ms Macon, she took the information available to her and came to a conclusion, we are lucky she cared enough to spend some of her last years compiling and publishing her book.

While no evidence has been found to support the claim that Thomas was the father of the above sons, there may be a possible explanation as to how this tradition came into being.  I have discovered in the ship records a Thomas Kelly, wife Honora and their five children born in Ireland but came in 1693 to Virginia where they received a land grant.  No Irish Catholic family would have received a land grant in Virginia at that time so it seems certain that this family were protestant, maybe with Huguenot influence as a great many Huguenots settled near Manakin, Goochland Co VA during this time.  If this was our ancestors, then they would have been the great grandparents of the above sons and Thomas the husband of Honora could be the source of the myth within our family.  More will be posted as this investigation progresses. 


William Kelley and Elizabeth Dean I suspect has been over looked or dismissed by past researchers because they did not fit with family lore but in my opinion as a retired homicide investigator we have sound evidence in the form of a government document that can not be so easily dismissed.  Based upon my understanding as to how native born Irish families lived before modern times combined with the evidence of the 1752 Lunenburg  Co Tithe Census and 1782 Mecklenburg Co Va Head of Household census, the naming customs of the native Irish, combined with DNA evidence and given there is zero evidence to support the James or Thomas claim, I believe William Kelley was the true name of our ancestor who came from Ireland and settled in Virginia and the 1752 Lunenburg  Co Tithe Census makes it likely all their children were born in the portion of Lunenburg that became Mecklinburg Co in 1765.  In both the 1752 and 1782 Census William Kelley's family were the only Kelley, Kelly, O'Kelley or O'Kelly family that appear and the Mecklenburg 1782 census was conducted a mere three years after Charles Kelley appeared on the 1779 Mecklenburg Militia roster and 1779 was also the year of the birth for the first American born grandson who was named William, the first born child of Charles and Mary and the census was conducted one year or less after the birth of the first American born granddaughter who was named Elizabeth (Betsy) Dean O'Kelley.  If Thomas or James were the name of Charles's father the Irish naming customs was to name the first grandson after his paternal grandfather and if any of the sons named their first born son Thomas that knowledge has been lost and only Francis the youngest named his first born James but I suspect he was named after the very famous Rev James O'Kelley who lived in Mecklenburg at that time.  The first born grandson was named William supporting what this census tells us, that our ancestor was William Kelley.  Having been born in Ireland, William would have done as the native Irish often did in that time, living with their children and grandchildren and great grandchildren in a single home with the eldest male as the head of the house which is exactly what we see in this 1782 Mecklenburg Co census with William and ten others living exactly where and how they should be in that time.  So it is likely that at the time of the 1782 census all the family including Charles, Mary, their children, young William and Elizabeth lived with Charles's father and mother, William Kelley and Elizabeth Dean, and that is the reason Charles does not appear as the head of his household in this Mecklenburg census.  Immigrants still do this today so often the answer is the simplest, the census tells us the name of our ancestor.  The 1802 tax rolls for Franklin Co Ga lists a William Kelley so he may have moved to this area as at least one of his grandsons, George Washington O'Kelley, became a Baptist minister and frequented the Franklin Co area and he is likely the source for the belief that George was one of the brothers.

Also appearing on the 1752 Lunenburg  Co Tithe Census is a William Waire and a William Harwell.  William Waire might be the father of Elizabeth Wyers who married Thomas O'Kelley in Granville NC and Thomas and Elizabeth Wyers  son, Rev James married a Franky (Frances) Harwell and Charles's daughter Betsy Dean married a Mark Harwell, William Harwell may have been their grandfather.

How do we know that our family came from Mecklenburg Co Virginia before their migrated to Georgia?  The early bible records for George Wellborn O'Kelley the son of George Washington O'Kelley gives Mecklenburg VA as his birth place and that George Washington was the son of Charles born about 1760 and Mecklenburg is where we find the marriage record for Francis Kelley and Delilah Crowder and where we find Charles Kelley's name on a 1779 Mecklenburg Militia roster and his land and tax records up to the year 1805.

I have no doubt that many will reject William as the husband of Elizabeth Dean solely because J Fred O'Kelly, Alethea Jane Macon, and Harold O'Kelley all made minor mention that our ancestor's name could be Thomas but none of these authors provided any supporting evidence for their conclusions or tell us how they determined that was his name.  Macon devotes only part of page four in her book to the possibility that Thomas was the name of our ancestor, J Fred O'Kelly who published his book three years before Macon gives us one sentence on page 42, Harold just accepts such is true and most descendants accept Thomas without question, as if it was a proven fact as if they have his photo ID in their hands.  In reading the works of these authors I am certain they never intended such unyielding loyalty to their research.  Alethea Jane Macon addresses this by expressing her hope and desire that future generations of descendants will use her work as a starting point for their research so while many may be reluctant to embrace the 1752 Lunenburg  Co Tithe Census and 1782 Virginia Head of Household census for what they prove, my training and experience as a homicide investigator compels me to accept the evidence no matter where it leads and if two government documents can not be accepted as evidence then what can?  There are ten other people, most likely all Kelleys living in the 1782 home of William Kelly and some had to have gone on and create descendants and all of the above authors agree that we descended from the Mecklenburg Co VA Kelleys and this is proven by a bible record of one of Charles's grandsons.  I don't see how we can ignore William Kelley and the ten others, the only Kelleys, Kellys, or O'Kelleys that appear in both census and the last one at a time all the above researchers tell us our family was living in Mecklenburg the place all the evidence tells us they should be.  J Fred claims that Charles sold his farm in Mecklenburg in 1805 and moved to Ga.  So for me  and for my reasons stated this is a game changer.  This is the kind of stuff that moves investigators to lay their case file on the desk of a prosecutor and asked for an arrest warrant.  Added together these different parts create a preponderance of evidence that causes reasonable people to accept something as proven fact.  I believe the family of William Kelley and two of his sons, Charles and Francis are proven by facts.


In the book "Finding your Irish Roots.." by Stephanie Varney we learn the Irish naming customs.

  1. The oldest son was named after his father's father.  Charles named his son William, Frances named his son James and I believe he was named after Rev James O'Kelley the founder of the Christian Church and who was living in Mecklenburg and may have married Francis and Delilah, Thomas named his son Francis, and Benjamin named his son Soloman after Soloman Williams.

  2. The oldest daughter was named after the mother's mother.  Charles named his daughter Elizabeth Dean, Francis names his daughter Martha, Thomas names his daughter Ann, and Benjamin named his daughter Annie.

  3. The second son was named after the mother's father.  Charles named his son George Washington which could be after both George Crowder and George Washington, Francis named his son Francis Dean, Thomas named his son Thomas Dean which if DNA continues to indicate Thomas was a cousin I think the Dean name in his descendants supports the possibiity that Thomas may have a a first wife who was also a Dean, and Benjamin named his son Francis Marion who was the second most famous Revolutionary War Hero with George Washington being the first.

  4. The third son was named after the father.  Charles named his son Benjamin F likely after the very popular Benjamin Franklin, Francis named his son George likely after George Crowder his father-in-law, Thomas named his son James who later became a minister in the Christian church established by the previously mentioned and famous Rev James O'Kelley the founder of the Christian church and Benjamin named his son Nimrod after Nimrod Williams.

  5. The fourth son was named after the father's oldest brother.  Charles named his son James, Francis named his son Thomas, Thomas named his son William, and Benjamin named his son Charles.

  6. The second daughter was named after the father's mother.  Charles named his daughter Frances, Francis named his daughter Delilah, Thomas named his daughter Mary, and Benjamin named is daughter Elizabeth.

  7. The third daughter was named after the mother.  Charles named this his daughter Mary, Francis named his Mary, Thomas named his daughter Sarah, and Benjamin had no additional daughters.

  8. The fourth daughter was named after the mother's oldest sister.  Charles named his daughter Nancy, Francis had no additional daughter, and Thomas named his daughter Nancy.

What we do not know but must consider is we do not know if there were children born before these children, could have been named and then died and were forgotten by later generations.  There could have been more wives and more brothers. 


- Deanes of Galway City and County Galway Ireland or Henrico Co Va -

Deane Coat of ArmsWe should not neglect the Dean side of our family in our research, the name meaning Valley Dwellers.  I think the common held belief in our family is our ancestor and Miss Dean met in America and married probably in Virginia but I am unaware of evidence to support such.  J Fred O'Kelly in his 1966 book just states that James or Thomas Kelley married Elizabeth Dean and he provides no statement if this marriage occurred in America or Ireland.  Alethea Jane Macon on page 4 of her 1969 book tells us that Thomas came to Virginia and married Elizabeth Dean in about 1748 but she doesn't tell the reader how she came to her conclusion so I suspect she is just repeating family lore in book form.  Harold O'Kelley concludes that Miss Deans father was Benjamin Dean because the name Benjamin appears in our family and he finds a Benjamin Dean who served in our revolution but I am certain the source of Benjamin in our family came from the very popular Benjamin Franklin and we most often find it as Benjamin Franklin or Benj F O'Kelley, never as the custom dictated, as Benjamin Dean O'Kelley.  I think it is far more likely that Miss Dean's father was Francis Deane or Charles Deane or Thomas Deane, the three names we most commonly see associated with the Dean middle name in our early family.  I also know of no family tradition stories that tell us this is how our two ancestors came to be married but the Irish were not well thought of in the time our ancestor was believed to have come so it is very unlikely that someone who wasn't Irish would have married our Irish ancestor.  If you view this map you will find that during the time our ancestors lived in Ireland the Deanes lived on or near Dublin road just east of Galway Bay making it likely Elizabeth Dean or her father were Irish born.  This seems proven by the 1749 Elphin Parish Census that records many Deans in Co Roscommon including a woman named Elizabeth Dean.

The Deane family name originates from Normandy and after the 12th century invasion of England many Normans followed William the Conqueror into Ireland and over the next couple of centuries more came and some stayed and the Deanes reportedly came during that time, stayed, and settled in the city of Galway; the Deane family became one of the 14 tribes of Galway City County Galway Ireland and over time the Deane family came to be known as part of the Old English families in Ireland. who reportedly became more Irish than the native Irish.  And while it is certainly possible that Elizabeth Dean was born in Ireland, it seems more likely she may have been born in Henrico Co Virginia and to a family of English descent as Richard Deane had a daughter born about the time of our Elizabeth Dean and it is not known what became of her.  Many of her brothers moved to Halifax Co which was formed in 1752 from Lunenburg Co the same County that Mecklenburg was formed in 1765.  She had several brothers whose names also appear in our family, Thomas Dean, Charles Dean, and William Dean which is the name I suspect William D was truly named.  Elizabeth's family were protestant, and they associated with the Chastain family who married married descendants of Thomas O'Kelley.


**Source for Dean being the middle name of Charles O'Kelley is the Whiteheaddna.com website.
*** In his book "The Tribes and Customs of Hy-Many: Commonly Called OKelly Country" Dr John O'Donovan tells his reader about a family line living in Hy-Many Ireland who were a slave family line.  All of Europe including protestant England engaged in white slavery and they used the Bible as the authority.  This knowledge has been mostly wiped from the memory of our modern world.


 

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